https://www.lgbtqreproductiveloss.org/files/original/a1895247497159c8ae10947e8098db1a.jpg 13d078252311cc2b3a0621e081a20e0c Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource 8 Years Subject The topic of the resource Facebook LGBTQ people Parental Grief Autobiographical memory Lesbian Mothers Description An account of the resource Facebook post to remember her stillborn daughter’s 8th birthday by a lesbian mother who lives in a rural US community with few other LGBTQ families in her immediate circle of friends. Text reads: It’s [November 18th] again. Eight years ago today, I held my beautiful baby girl in my arms, and tried to figure out how to say hello and goodbye all at once. This morning I sat down with [my twins], and told them the story of their oldest sister. (It’s something I did with [my second daughter] when she was an infant, too.) I know it will be years before they understand, but for now, I want them to have heard. I want them to know that this family is bigger than just what they see. I want them to know who she is, and why she’s important. I want her to know, too—she must know, wherever she is—how much she is remembered and loved… As we do each fall, we will make a birthday donation in her name. This year, the charity we have chosen is MyStuff. Children who are taken from abusive situations to shelters or foster care often must leave behind all their belongings. MyStuff provides kids in crisis with a duffel bag full of toys, books, toiletries, a stuffed animal and a blanket. Their goal is to provide a bag to each of the 300,000 children who face these situations each year. You can join us in celebrating [Ella’s] life with your own donation, at www.mystuffbags.org. It’s hard to believe eight whole years have gone by. When I close my eyes, it feels like just yesterday. Nothing—nothing—will ever erase the love I feel for this precious child. Having the chance, however brief, to be her mother, far outweighs the pain of losing her. Happy Birthday, precious child. You will live on forever in my heart. [Friend] This post makes me cry every year. This year is no exception. 37 minutes ago · Like




 [Friend] Beautiful post. Thinking of you and your family.
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 [Friend] Every year I think, how could the time pass so quickly? Still the images in my mind of [her] sweet baby face and that beautiful red hair are as vivid today as they were 8 years ago. I keep remembering everything I can remember about her, and somehow, I miss her too, though I never really knew her. Love to you and yours today, Mama. 
17 minutes ago via mobile · Like Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Circa 2014 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Participant in LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Research Project Craven, Christa Lane-Davies, Hannah Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource <a href="http://rightsstatements.org/vocab/InC/1.0/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">In copyright.</a> Language A language of the resource eng Type The nature or genre of the resource Social Media Post Still Image Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 8 years_01 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Personal Collection of LGBTQ Reproductive Losses Study Participant Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available unpublished Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource jpeg Social Media Posts